Life throws many episodes at us that appear to require a response or defense. We always have a choice as to whether we engage or not. On occasion, the only winning strategy is not to play. This is especially true when responding will require us to stake out a clear position when we don’t have one, or when engaging will embroil us in an ongoing conflict we would prefer to avoid.
Sounds like great leadership is about channelling all your energy in the direction you want, and not wasting it on engagements where the outcome is most likely already decided or the rewards are minimal.
Distinguishing between "make situations better" and "don't engage in lose-lose situation" seems like it would be tough balance to weigh for people who are action oriented and also have bought in to the admired leadership approach.
Sounds like great leadership is about channelling all your energy in the direction you want, and not wasting it on engagements where the outcome is most likely already decided or the rewards are minimal.
Any advice on what 'magic words' one can use in getting out no-win situations other than, "I wouldn't touch that one with a 10-foot pole."?
Distinguishing between "make situations better" and "don't engage in lose-lose situation" seems like it would be tough balance to weigh for people who are action oriented and also have bought in to the admired leadership approach.
Seem I've got a list to make!