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Carrie Crawford's avatar

This is what we do with our families, or, in my case, my middle school students--figure it out, or I'll take care of it. It helps kids learn to cooperate and problem-solve. Nicely.

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Admired Leadership's avatar

That is a great simplification, Carrie.

A parent saying, "I don't need to be the decision maker here, but I will be if you can't come to an agreement yourselves". Many of those steps in the decision making process can me teased apart and applied for organizational decision making.

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Paul Wilson's avatar

Assigning a dedicated decision maker prior to gathering consensus ensures that there will be an outcome.

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Admired Leadership's avatar

Yes...And it often times isn't best to be the "leader" as the designee.

Who else might you select by default?

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Ryan Lyman's avatar

Additional challenges include the decisions as to who the decision-maker is and the "reasonable time" frame.

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Admired Leadership's avatar

Important that it time frame is put on the table as part of the process.

Glad you notice this, Ryan.

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