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Great post.

Fishing for compliments is not only manipulative, but it also shows a lack of confidence and self-esteem. As a leader, it's important to be open to constructive criticism and feedback, rather than constantly seeking validation through compliments. It's a sign of maturity and self-awareness to be able to take a step back and reflect on our own weaknesses, rather than trying to persuade others into recognizing our strengths.

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Should be an accessible shift for those in the bad habit of fishing.

Instead of criticizing yourself as a set up for conversation, shift it to asking for feedback.

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