Seeking feedback immediately after a performance is never easy for even the most seasoned leaders and performers. But you never know what people are thinking unless you ask them. Dodging this feedback by presuming others would tell you if there was something you needed to know means missing valuable information that could make you better. The best leaders push through the discomfort and ask others how they did after each and every performance.
And the ask can be as simple as "What did I do well?" and "How can I do better?"
Yes, Tim - those are simple, effective, repeatable.
And safe. That's the big trick in navigating these kinds of things - to make it safe for all concerned.