Discussion about this post

User's avatar
Jennifer's avatar

Excellent leaders know what excellent looks like. So it stands to reason that excellent leaders aren’t naturally inclined to offer praise for work that doesn’t meet up to exceptional expectations.

Encouraging words happen frequently, even before the standard is met. But praise comes from excellence only when it’s really recognized. “What you want me to lie to you?”

Expand full comment
Steve's avatar

It is so satisfying to read this perspective instead of the one that excuses those who don't have this particular outward "love language." It really does feel like people become derailed from the best kind of habits because they are focused on how different they are from everyone else. Just get over yourself and be more generous with your praise to everyone! Be strategic about it if need be... but everyone is encouraged and motivated by it at moments --- not just 1/5th of people.

Expand full comment
3 more comments...

No posts