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David C Morris's avatar

I remain skeptical of the claims made regarding the power of positive thinking. The people mentioned in this post all have one thing in common: They sell books, programs, and speaking gigs. People are lazy and they want to take Easy Street on their way to The Good Life instead of putting in the hard work it takes to achieve results. Positive thinking can help, but I will choose Doing over Thinking/Feeling every time. I don't wait until I'm in the mood to do something. I focus on how I will think/feel after I've done something difficult rather than how I feel right now and this has made all the difference.

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Joe Loughery's avatar

I am hesitant of these types of writers. While optimism can be useful, true grit doesn't come from optimism (in my experience). In dealing with illness and/or other hardships, the listed authors' advice is interesting at best. We grow and overcome by implementing the STOCKDALE PARADOX (coined by Jim Collins. Named after Vice-Admiral James Stockdale). While optimists tend to shy away from hard truths, skeptics, pessimists, and realists often confront them. So the the real question is do we want to manipulate people or genuinely grow and lead by example?

Thank you for your time.

Happy 4th.

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