Every once in a while, even top performers experience the need for an injection of self-confidence.
They have learned that striking a power pose when no one is looking can give them a boost and remind them that they are worthy of success.
A power pose is a stance that conveys confidence and is easy to do. All you need is a little privacy and a few minutes.
The rest depends on you.
Making a power pose in front of a mirror and giving yourself an affirmation like “You got this” or “No one is going to play better than you today” can work wonders for instilling a sense of power and well-being.
Almost everyone has struck such a pose during their formative years but may feel they don’t need to do something so silly as an adult. Top athletes, stage performers, and motivational speakers will tell you otherwise.
Common power poses include the Wonder Woman (standing upright with hands on hips), Mr. Clean (arms crossed at the chest), the Touchdown Pose (hands upright in an H), the Bodybuilder (arms extended sideways with muscles flexed), the Moses (arms at an angle toward the sky) and the Celebration Dance.
Holding the pose for a few minutes in front of a mirror can influence confidence because it reminds us of the feelings we experience after success.
The pose projects an inner conviction that the performer has what it takes to overcome adversity and the resilience to achieve excellence. Striking a power pose just prior to performance gives performers a shot of adrenaline and electrifies their positive attitude.
Staring at yourself in the mirror and giving yourself a pep talk while striking a power pose is more common than you think. Although many of the world’s most accomplished performers might not admit it, they, too, strike a power pose on occasion to elevate their confidence prior to performance.
Give it a try sometime when you need it most. No one needs to know but you.
As Joe points out, Cuddy's research may be overstated (no more than Dweck's Growth Mindset, Duckworth's Grit, and countless others you'll find in your local bookstore's business and leadership section). Still, I always fall back to the power of a placebo (or, in this case, maybe even a nocebo). Will striking a power pose help you nail an entirely unprepared presentation? Most likely not. However, can it help calm you down/give you a boost of confidence if jitters start to creep up? I think it can. Years ago, I read Charles Darwin's The Expression of the Emotions in Man and Animals - TLDR - Smile and the muscles in your face cause your body to produce different emotions (i.e., chemical signals) than if you were to scowl, and that these emotions are universal. My go-to? I strike a Most Muscular Pose made famous by Arnold Schwarzenegger when I feel I need an extra boost of confidence :)
Good morning,
I recently was rewatching Your Body Language May Shape Who You Are by Amy Cuddy. It's interesting to say the least. She talks about these power poses (Cuddy. 2012). Professor Cuddy has faced some backlash regarding her research and claims. Some even arguing the legitimacy.
In 12 RULES FOR LIFE, Professor Jordan B. Peterson makes one of his rules: standing up straight with your shoulders back (Peterson. 2018). This we were taught to do growing up (to me this one makes sense). For some odd reason, there are many professors who do not agree with Professor Peterson's teaching. Yet, none I have spoken with, can give me any valid reasons...
In EMT training our instructor (he was also a paramedic) taught us how to breath better after a run lol.
Regardless of who is teaching this, I prefer the Jewish statement: "There's nothing new under the sun".
Another thing, I am going to point out. Experienced men and women can see right through your facade. That old bs your way through no longer works (if it ever really did). We, millennials, seem to be a hit or miss. The Gen Z though, they are stellar at emotional intelligence (EQ/EI). It's almost as if the organization studies discipline comes naturally to them. What's interesting, with the ones I have interviewed and worked with, is they just want us to come as we are. If we're a bad manager, then get better. If we're a bad team member, then improve OR find a place in the organization where our talents may be properly utilized..
To them power posing can come off as belittling, disrespectful, arrogant, or at the very least fake.
Thank you for your time.