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David C Morris's avatar

I often say the following at work, "I just need someone to stand on the other side of the court and hit the ball back to me." The better the person standing on the other side of the court is, the better game you'll end up playing, regardless if you win or lose. In the long run, you end up winning more even if you lose every single game to the better player. There will always be somebody better than you at something. Find them, compete with them, learn from them. Then pay it forward when someone you're better at does the same. In the long run, there are more win-win situations in life than there are win-lose.

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Joe Loughery's avatar

Good morning,

There are many reasons individuals keep it to themselves (as I imagine you have researched/seen). Off the top of my head they can be due to the culture of the C-Suite aka corporate. The few leaders and managers that exist give it away. Since they don't necessarily take credit for it (Why would they? A lot of strategy and change management comes from wisdom literature, that they certainly didn't come up with), they are merely dismissed come promotion time. One way to avoid this is by seeking feedback from the men and women who have worked with that individual. In a corporation, someone who shows up, works hard, and is competent is really all one generally needs (unless we're talking about specialists).

Thanks for your time.

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