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Dr. Jim Salvucci's avatar

Our negativity bias is hard wired, which is why the slightest disapproval always overwhelms the loudest praise. When I was a college instructor, I noticed that students would ignore compliments I gave them on their papers and zero in on some small bit of criticism. The reverse was true when it came to those end-of-semester student evaluations of my teaching. One negative review could stick in my craw for months while I would utterly forget the dozens of positive reviews.

There is a role for praise and a role for criticism. Try not to mix them; otherwise only the negative will break through.

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Kris's avatar

I love this. What I want to know is when do you deliver the criticism? I know it said later on in another conversation, but how soon afterwards and won’t that dilute the praise anyway? Just delaying it until then?

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