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Robert Ta's avatar

Perfectionism might be a silent killer of growth. Your failures tell you a lot of things, and might be better for you in the long-term to self-actualize.

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Wendy Scott's avatar

I can attest to mindset influencing our ability with a very odd (but true) story.

Many years ago, my daughter and I went bowling with my sister and her family. I'm not good at sports, have rarely gone bowling, and did not expect to do well.

All went as expected with my brother-in-law getting the best scores (my sister isn't sporty either and the kids were all too young to be much competition).

Then suddenly I got a strike. Then another. Then another. It carried on until I got around seven strikes in a row. Everyone (including me) was astounded.

I have no idea what happened, and it's never happened since, but something definitely happened.

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